Divorce Effects on Children

Divorce effects on children can vary greatly depending on the gender of the child as well as age of child in divorce, and other considerations Below are a few factors which may possibly aid in the trauma that a child may endure during and after a divorce.

Quality of relationship

More turmoil is expected from children who have a tight bond with the non-custodial parent.

Perceptions of the home environment

Perceptions vary based on the overall age of the child, but vary just as much based upon their home environment. Whether they lived in a happy home or an unhappy, many perceptions can be taken based upon these factors alone.

Relationship between the parents

Conflict between the two parents can cause the most damaging effects upon children if they are to overhear or see the confrontation.

Gender of the child

Most children seek emotional support, yet this tends to be easier for girls rather than boys. Boys may endure more emotional distress, because they don't know where to seek support. In cases such as these, boys tend to react or act out with aggression and impulsivity.

Remarriage

Little evidence shows that remarriage changes a child's behavior, though the added support and supervision may seem helpful.

Age of the child

As stated above, children perceive differently at different ages of development. An example is that of an infant or toddler not understanding the divorce, and yet adjusting better than an older child may to the situation. Yet, years down the line, the absence of either parent from early memory may cause a number of different psychological issues.

Possible Psychological Effects of Divorce on Children

Short-term and long-term feelings of:

• Denial
• Loss
• Anxiety
• Rejection
• Loneliness
• Anger
• Conflicting loyalties

Possible Long Term Effects

While the immediate effects of divorce may be painful, long term effects may be just as painful if not worse. An example is the ending of education early on in sole-parent families. One theory describes the lack of financial support as a factor deterring sole-parent children from furthering their education.

Another long term consequence is “The Sleeper Effect”, which entails that as children grown up, they will inevitably experience similar relationship problems to their parents. Rather then embracing a committed relationship, they may instead reject it due to their fear of betrayal.

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