If you have had a child out of wedlock and have now ended your relationship with the mother, it is important to understand that you have single fathers' rights. You did not have to marry the mother in order to qualify for custodial privileges or at least visitation rights. The first thing to do, if you are interested in seeking custody or getting guaranteed access to your child, is to visit an attorney and review the options for single fathers within your state. Each state has different laws and regulations where child custody is concerned, and without a marriage having occurred you may have to complete some initial tasks. For example, single fathers' rights might only apply after a claim of paternity is filed. Additionally, a mother may not want to participate if the relationship ended badly, but this is actually considered contempt of court by many state governments. Remember, you do have rights and though you may have to fight for them, the best interest of your child may be at stake.