How should I ask my spouse to sign a prenuptial agreement?

I'm entering my third marriage and would like to execute a prenuptial agreement with my soon-to-be spouse.  It is a delicate affair for me, and I don't want her to think that I harbor any doubts about our relationship.  What tips can you offer me to ask my prospective spouse for a prenuptial agreement?

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One of the objectives of a prenuptial agreement is to ensure the financial health of the union and define the roles of each party in the marriage.  While the subject may be touchy and uncomfortable one to broach, experts recommend speaking openly, directly and frankly to your future spouse about this type of contract, preferably before the engagement or early in the relationship. 

You may want to start by mentioning some of the benefits of a prenuptial agreement, which include the following:

  1. Safeguarding inheritances and gifts received
  2. Protecting the rights of children from a previous marriage to inheritance
  3. To allocate a value to marital contributions that are non-monetary in nature, such as sacrificing a career to raise children or homemaking. 

A discussion about a prenuptial agreement should take place in a calm and cozy environment that is conducive to effective communication.

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